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Marriage in Medieval Culture: Consent Theory and The Case of Joseph and Mary

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  28 July 2009

Irven M. Resnick
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Irven M. Resnick is Professor and Chair of Excellence in Judaic Studies in the department of philosophy and religion at the University of Tennessee at Chattanooga.

Extract

From the second half of the eleventh century, medieval Latin theologians and canonists wrestled with a number of questions related to sexual relations and marriage. Marriage is, characteristically, one of the avenues by which a society—especially a religious or holy community— attempts to define its boundaries. In this effort church authorities had, for centuries, proscribed both marriage and sexual relations between Jews and Christians. They had sought control over marital relations among Christian spouses by proscribing sexual contact before receiving communion, during Lent, or during a woman's pregnancy or menstrual cycle. They had also attempted to eliminate marriage among clergy, with occasional success, as part of an effort to define and control marital unions more effectively.

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Biblical Interpretation and the Construction of Christian Sexualities
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Copyright © American Society of Church History 2000

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32. “Verumtamen, qui inuiti et coacti coniuncti sunt, si postea ab aliquo temporis spatio sine contradictione et querimonia cohabitauerint, facilitate discedendi vel reclamandi habita, consentire uidentur; et consensus ille consequens supplet quod praecedens coactio tulerat.” Peter Lombard, Sententiae in IV libris distinctae 4.29.Google Scholar

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38. A distinction perhaps rooted in Paul's comment at Romans 7:19: “Non enim quod volo bonum, hoc facio; sed quod nolo malum, illud facio.”Google Scholar

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51. Consider for example the debate surrounding whether or not Jewish children could be forcibly taken and baptized without the consent of their parents. Here the question was not the consent of the child, but rather the presence of parental consent. It is instructive that Duns Scotus was willing to abandon consent as an essential condition for valid baptism in such cases. See his Opus Oxoniense 4.4.9.Google Scholar

52. Decreta 27.2.2, Corpus iuris canonici, 1063.Google Scholar

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57. Augustine had proclaimed that Joseph was Jesus' father even though he had not had conjugal relations with Mary, because not coitus but love establishes the marital bond (“Non itaque propterea non fuit pater Joseph, quia cum matre Domini non concubuit; quasi uxorem libido faciat, et non charitas conjugalis”). Sermo 51, De concordia Evangelistarum Matthaei et Lucae in generationibus Domini 13, PL 38: 345.Google Scholar

58. See his Homiliae de tempore, PL 118:84B.Google Scholar

59. De divinis officiis 3.19, PL 170:78B.Google Scholar

60. Decreta 27.2.18, Corpus iuris canonici, 1067.Google ScholarCf. Makowski, Elizabeth M., “The Conjugal Debt and Medieval Canon Law,” Journal of Medieval History 3 (1977): 99114.CrossRefGoogle ScholarJames Brundage examines the notion of implied consent underlying the theory of the conjugal debt in “Implied Consent to Intercourse,” in Laiou, Angeliki E., ed., Consent and Coercion to Sex and Marriage in Ancient and Medieval Societies (Washington: Dumbarton Oaks, 1993): 245–56.Google Scholar

61. Elliott notes that the focus on the ability to consummate was relentless. If a woman could not be penetrated, surgery was recommended. While Pope Innocent III was willing to allow for the dissolution of a marriage in the event of a gross disparity in the size of the genitals, John of Freiburg later remarked that a wise woman told him that “very rarely was a man's penis so large that his bride could not accomodate it.” Elliott, Spiritual Marriage, 146.Google Scholar

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64. “‘Consentire … est tacere cum possis redarguere.’” De morali principis institutione, 26, 52 CCCM 137, ed. Schneider, R. J. (Turnhout: Brepols, 1995).Google Scholar